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My 2 year old is afraid of the bath. What do I do?

Posted in Parents

Friday 25 June 2010

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Question

My little girl is 2 years old and is afraid of the bath. I don't know how to reassure her even when I mention the bath she starts screaming and crying, I really don't know what to do.

Answer

It sounds like a stressful time for you. Seeing your daughter so terrified, even at the mention of the bath, must be upsetting and finding a way round this hard to fathom.

Maybe something minor, such as slipping in the water or being splashed could have unnerved her a little. It’s also worth mentioning that small children can seem to develop anxieties over things and situations almost overnight and sometimes there can seem no rhyme or reason for this.

A way forward could be to give the bath a miss for a while. Maybe using a shower, if you have one, could be worth a try, or having a wash down with water in a bowl or bucket could take the pressure off. Doing this in a room other than the bathroom might be an idea, even outside if that’s possible. Above all, concentrate on the fun you can have with water. She might like to give a toy a bath or wash its clothes or give plants a drink with a water pistol. Have a look in your local library for an appropriate picture book or make up a story with a water theme.

When you feel it might be time to try introducing the idea of having a bath in the bathroom perhaps sharing it with another family member might be something you could do.

We hope these tips are helpful for you. If you continue to be concerned, you could have a word with your Health Visitor or GP who may be able to advise you further.

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Comments

  1. Saturday 10th July 2010
    Hello, sorry to hear about your predicament. You might have already tried this but when you feel ready you could place something in the empty bath without mentioning it, like a new sponge, a new toy or bathtime crayons for drawing on the bath and the body. When she walks past the bath to the loo or the sink she might see what's in there and see the bath in a differnet light?

  2. Friday 30th July 2010
    Hi there! Sorry to hear about your daughter's fear. Both my boys developed a fear of the bath for no reason whatever when they were about 18 months old. It just happened overnight. I managed to get them standing or sitting in the empty bath and washed them down in it. Then gradually (after a couple of days) added little bits of water, just enough to paddle in. They eventually overcame the fear but it did take a while. HTH, and good luck!

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